shotinthekidney:

queerhomestuck:

shotinthekidney:

queerhomestuck:

@shotinthekidney

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Thank-you so much for answering! I loved your map since my geographic knowledge isn’t as good as it should be. 🙂

ahh no problem! i thought it’d be useful bc like… i can’t place where most US states are so there’s no reason someone who doesn’t live in France would know where France’s régions are :p

See where it says Edmonton? That’s roughly where I’m located. 🙂
[The map is from Lonely Planet.]

I love knowing where Tumblr people live. When I read a newspaper article, I’ll think oh France, queerhomestuck and polestardean live there. It helps make the world feel a bit smaller. 🙂

oooh Canada!! yeah my knowledge of Canadian geography is even worse than of the US lol

me too though!! it’s like “oh i know someone from this country!!!” it’s p cool :3

freakxwannaxbe:

l-heure-du-the:

l-heure-du-the:

l-heure-du-the:

WTF TUMBLR CHAT HAS EMOTES NOW????

WHY DO THEY LOOK LIKE THIS

THEY LOOK LIKE MY SOUL

LOOK AT THIS TRAINWRECK

not the emotes we need, but the ones we deserve

THIS IS THE BEST FEATURE TUMBLR HAS IMPLEMENTED YET

i was taggèd by the bestwin @grayarothane​ once again o:

1. Where is your cell phone? on my left

2. Your hair? is this also a ‘Where is…’ question?? it’s on my head (although i did keep the braid from when my hair was super long and i got it all chopped off at once, that one’s at my mum’s)

3. Your mom? probably either at home or on her way back from work i don’t know i haven’t seen her since october

4. Your other half? Not Applicable

5. Your favourite food? not in the fridge, sadly

6. Your dream last night? WAIT FUCK WERE ALL THESE QUESTIONS WHAT IS AND NOT WHERE IS well fuck it i’m not going back on them. i don’t actually remember all that much, all i know is it wasn’t epic enough for me to want to jot it down

7. Your favourite drink? anything with lemon in it

8. Fear? capitalism and ableism

9. Your home away from home? homestuck

10. Where were you last night? watching videos on the youtube

11. Something that you aren’t? a filthy capitalist

12. Muffins? fuck yes give me where are the muffins

13. Wish list item? all the homestuck merch and €920,000 so i can buy my own house and not be stressed about having to find work asap to pay for shit

14. Where you grew up? somewhere in France that is not where i live now

15. Last thing you did? followed someone on the tumblr. before that i watered my plant she’s cute and i love her

16. What are you wearing now? black jeans and socks and my pajamas top bc i’m supposed to shower today so i didn’t change it

17. Your TV? i do not have a tv but i wouldn’t really watch it anyway so

18. Your pets? one cat at my mum’s and two at my dad’s (the only cat i’d have considered Fully Mine is now sadly in cat valhalla)

19. Friends? most are too far away to hug 😡

20. Your life? a smol bean trying to life a peaceful smol bean life w/ no other people expecting the Impossible of me

21. Missing someone? myeah kind of

i’m Not Tagging Anyone but feel free to say i tagged you if you want to do this o:

drst:

kyraneko:

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siriustachi:

siriustachi:

silversarcasm:

bloodblonde89:

fluttersheep:

silversarcasm:

the idea of people having to be ‘useful’ is just so gross, like people do not exist to be used

having to produce something and have a use is a capitalist ideal and not an intrinsic part of humanity

just by being alive you are human and you are worth something and you can never be useless

this applies to animals as well

“Having to like DO THINGS is SO OPPRESSIVE. No one had to like DO THINGS before evil capitalism. In ancient times food, water, and shelter just existed and everything was taken care of for me”

Guess what happened to people who didn’t do things before capitalism? They died. Cause if you weren’t hunting, gathering, or useful in some aspect of nature. You were killed, died or starvation, dehydration, or exposure. 

Being useful is literally part of our biology. Fucking moron. You pull some idea out of your ass because you literally don’t want to get off your ass. 

I’m not saying nobody should ever do things ever, I’m saying people don;t have to produce to an arbitrary standard in order to prove their right to live

And if you really think disabled people deserve to die if we can’t ‘contribute’ or be useful in a way you approve of then congrats youre a fucking monster

actually there’s significant evidence in terms of Neolithic burials that disabled people who would not have been able to hunt for themselves (the archaeological evidence mostly shows mobility disabilities because it’s visible in the bone record) were well fed and cared for by their communities

so the “people like you would have been left to die” argument isn’t just cruel and violently ableist, it’s extremely historically inaccurate and based off of projecting modern prejudice on prehistoric cultures

sources because I’m on my laptop now!

note: in the neolithic era, a person in their 40s or 50s would be considered elderly

12,000-year-old burial of a woman about 45 with mobility disabilities both congenital and acquired

burial of a 40-50 year old Neanderthal man who had survived to old age with a deformed right arm and a long-healed head injury that would have made him blind in one eye

neolithic burial of a man in his 50s who lost the use of his left arm in adolescence

neolithic burial of a man in his 40s with evidence of a significant mobility disability caused by an injured hip and leg, some time in adulthood but long before his death

neolithic Asian burial of a man in his 20s with a congenital disorder which would have made him a quadriplegic around age 14. He survived for 10-15 years after that.

5th century burial of child with Down Syndrome

Our society continually propagates the myth that our ancestors’ lives were miserable, but the truth is human beings figured out how to live cooperatively and humanely a long time ago. Really the agricultural revolution fucked everything up.

Cuz clearly people only died and starved before capitalism

Anthropologically, proof of fixed femur fractures in ancient hominids shows that is one of the signs of civilized people– caring for the sick and injured is a cornerstone of civilization. So lmao go fuck yourself with the injured and disabled died thousands of years ago if they couldn’t help provide for their group.

Stop turning ancient hominids into these cruel “survival of the fittest” images. Especially cause that isn’t even what is meant by that phrase.

Even Neanderthals cared for their sick and injured. Which says a lot about those who are against the idea.

Another point: back in the ancient times, pretty much ALL work that got done was work of the “if it doesn’t get done, you starve” variety, perhaps embellished a bit by the “if it doesn’t get done, you’re uncomfortable” sort. Work was vital, yes, but all the work that was vital was vital.

Nowadays, on the other hand, we have excess, and waste, and an absolute shitpot of arbitrary work that gets shoved into the “necessary and vital” pile just because somebody else can make a buck off it, made as much off of cut corners and financial shenanigans as of anybody’s honest labor. Shitty Wal-Mart plastic pitchers and crap toys that capture attention and drop it just as fast, “fast fashion” that you wear twice and it falls apart, shiny chrome washer-dryers that are going to be replaced in five or ten years because planned obsolescence meets upgrade culture, and produce that gets rejected because it doesn’t look shiny and uniform and perfect.

If you’re a cashier, you have to stand even though you could do your job just as well sitting. A fast-food place throws out pounds of fries, empties the whole assembly-line of prepared food into the dumpster at the end of the night, and if you take any of it home to eat, that’s called stealing. Grocery stores throw out entire cartons of eggs because one out of twelve is cracked and lock their dumpsters so nobody can scavenge food from the tons of what’s thrown out still edible. Tech stores demand that unsold computers be destroyed with a sledgehammer before being thrown out, and all the labor that went into making it, assembling it, forming its component parts and mining its raw materials, is all wasted.

We can see this shit going on, we encounter it and sometimes we’re ordered to carry it out, in our workplaces that pay us shit, and let me tell you, there’s a hell of a difference between “if you don’t get the wheat harvested we’ll have no bread all winter” and “you need to spend the next eight hours cooking food so we can hold a profit after throwing a quarter of it in the garbage.” A multitude of people would benefit greatly if allowed to access that waste or allowed to not produce what’s likely going to be wasted.

It’s not that we want something for nothing–it’s that we want the stuff we’ve put work into creating to benefit us, or someone who could use it, and not see good work twisted into benefiting no one while still being demanded and still being underpaid.

If people in agrarian societies of the past starved it was frequently due to an uncontrollable act of nature (drought, flood, locusts, plague).

Now people starve because they don’t “produce” in an acceptable way for our capitalist system, which has a very narrow and limited definition of what being “useful” is, and because our corporate overlords would rather throw food away than feed someone who is starving.

We have enough food, but people are starving to death.

We have enough houses, but people are dying of exposure because they’re homeless.

We have enough medicine, but people are dying because they can’t afford to pay for it.

And we accept this as correct because we’ve been brainwashed that only “useful” i.e. “capitalist productive” people deserve to have food, shelter and healthcare.

That’s fucked up.

shotinthekidney:

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Thank-you so much for answering! I loved your map since my geographic knowledge isn’t as good as it should be. 🙂

ahh no problem! i thought it’d be useful bc like… i can’t place where most US states are so there’s no reason someone who doesn’t live in France would know where France’s régions are :p

sheliesshattered:

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turbhoe:

“if you want to adopt kids at an older age, that’s just lazy and you’ll miss the important developmental years. you won’t be able to connect.” okay but consider this:

1. I will not be able to handle a baby, but I will definitely be able to manage and guide an older child

2. no diapers. hallelujah

3. As a foster child gets older, their chance of adoption plummets. Adopting an older child gives a late break to someone who would have otherwise had to age out of the system

4. my plans for adoption are none of your concern

Holy shit people actually say that? Inviting a kid in need to be part of your family is ‘lazy’?

Being there for the ‘developmental years’ is so important not having it is a dealbreaker?

‘You won’t be able to connect’ with another human being unless you’re there for their formative years, imprinting on them?

…people who make that argument should probably do a LOT of soulsearching before they consider getting a toy baby adopting a younger child.

I had a sociology professor once and both he and his wife were registered social workers (in addition to him teaching), and after a couple of years married, they started talking about adopting a child. They’d seen the system up close, they knew how hard it was for some kids to get adopted. So when they sat down to start the fostering process, they told the agency to give them their toughest, most difficult case. If anyone could handle a kid who’d been labeled a “problem child”, it was these two people.

The agency paired them up with a 12 year old girl – the oldest they had, far, far too old to be considered for adoption typically. This girl’s birth parents had had drug problems, she’d been in and out of a couple dozen foster homes, no one able to handle her, she ran away frequently and had diagnosed behavioral problems, she was surly and defiant. When she first met them, she was clammed up tight, snarky, unwilling to trust them or anyone – and really, who could blame her?

But these two adults poured every bit of their compassion and training into this one child, into getting to know her, earning her trust by listening to her and treating her like a person who mattered. And slowly, slowly, she came around. Slowly, they built a relationship with her, and she came out of her shell. It wasn’t always smooth sailing, but having these two adults who were utterly unwilling to give up on her, or see her as the problem, let them work through each issue as it arose, and slowly they started to see this other side of her personality emerge. She joked around, she grinned often, she got excited about sports games and yelled at the tv with her foster father, she was making friends at her new school and doing better in her studies.

One day they sat her down and told her they loved her and they wanted her to legally, officially be part of their family. But they thought she deserved a say, too. If she just wanted to be fostered for the next five, six years, they could do that too. But they wanted to adopt her, they wanted to keep her for always. Did she want them? Yes, she said. Yes, I want to keep you, too.

My professor came into class one day with a grin that just would not go away, bouncing on his toes. We all wanted to know what was up. The adoption was finalized today, he told us. Today I have a daughter! And he showed us pictures of his brand new 12 year old daughter hugged between he and his wife, the three of them grinning at the camera. I’ve been her dad for awhile, he told us, but today it’s official, today we’re finally really a family.

I heard that story in the spring of 2001, when I was 20. This girl just 8 years younger than me, the age of my younger siblings, this girl who everyone had given up on. But these two people, they knew they had enough love and training to handle whatever was thrown their way, these people stayed true to the commitment of being parents, didn’t give up when the going got tough, proved slowly and methodically that they loved her, that she could trust them. 

That girl must be in her late 20s now. She’s had parents for more than a decade and a half. She hasn’t had to face this scary century alone. She has parents who went with her to her freshman orientation for college, I’m certain of it. If she’s gotten married, I know her father walked her down the aisle, that same grin splitting his face, the same grin as when he announced that he had a daughter, the same grin he wore every time he talked about her. If she’s had kids, her kids have the best grandparents.

They are a family of choice built on commitment and trust and love. You can’t tell me that isn’t bonding, you cannot tell me that it’s lazy, that that was somehow easier or less worthwhile than diapers.

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emergency compliment 
calming manatee
calming paintbrush
soothing techniques
the thoughts room
the quiet place
daily puppy
draw a stickman
self injury recovery masterpost
need a hug??
comfort box
alternatives for anger and restlessness
happy thing masterpost
when you’re sad?
click here to smile
feeling stressed?
cheer up!
the dawn room

isnt the rain beautiful
are you feeling okay?
calm down
weave silk to calm down
do nothing for two minutes
match the colours
look at the stars!

wanting to self harm or worse?
maybe you want to comfort someone else
wow beautiful nature sounds!
really good game to get feelings out
nature not your thing? coffee shop noise

sand patterns
speak to people
how to care for self harm cuts
distractions and alternatives for self harm
how to fade and cover scars
what to do when someone notices your cuts/scars?
resisting the urges
25 ways to avoid self injury
tips to help stop cutting
helping someone who is suicidal
stupid games to cheer you up (pointless games)
the butterfly project
just relapsed?
reasons to live

eating disorder support groups
coping with exercise addictions
bulimia recovery
coping with weight gain
overcome your eating disorder

bipolar self help
living with bipolar
dealing with bipolar without medication
10 more ways to cope with bipolar
bipolar coping skills


how to cope with depression
natural depression treatments
ways to deal with depression/stress
overcoming loneliness 
finding the right antidepressant

understanding and managing anxiety
understanding and coping with panic attacks
tips and tricks for dealing with anxiety
anti stress breathing tips
coping with social anxiety
cope with panic attacks

self defence tips
rape escape
how to break out of a zip tie

depression resources masterpost
cool game called ‘the end’ to distract you
“how to cut” (not what you think)
big master post of masterposts

HOW TO

stop skipping breakfast
stop biting your nails
work through feelings of social isolation
understand types of anxiety
deal with anxiety
calm down

calm down during a anxiety attack
do yoga to cheer  yourself up
learn how to mediate
cope with ocd
coping with social anxiety disorder
coping with schizophrenia
coping with depression
coping with bipolar
coping with borderline personality disorder
coping with eating 
disorders
coping with autism spectrum disorder

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coping with PTSD
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what is ocd?
more about ocd
what is PTSD?
what is social anxiety/social phobia
supporting someone with PTSD tips
living with someone who has OCD
what is depression?
what is autism spectrum disorder?
what is bipolar?
what is borderline personality disorder?
what are eating disorders?
what is generalized anxiety disorder?
what is panic disorder?
what is schizophrenia? 

suicide prevention
hotlines
more hotlines (UK)
list of hotlines for everyone
mental health hotlines

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note to self
good feelings
spring fling
coffee shop acoustics
rad covers
good feelings
a little bit of everything
good morning
breathe
acoustic
conquer school
wheels on the road
choose happy
sleepy tunes
coffee shop tunes

BACKGROUND NOISES

MYNOISE
SOUNDROWN
RAINY MOOD
COFFEE SHOP
SOUNDS TO FALL ASLEEP TO
STUDY PLAYLIST
MOST RELAXING TUNE ACCORDING TO SCIENTISTS
CALM SOUND

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This is incredible and I’m also going to add
emergencykitten.com

Because who doesn’t occasionally have an emergency that requires a kitten

Dear artist

auspisstice:

shake666productions:

shipsinkingbastard:

absolutelybrochelle:

You hate what you’ve created.

You hate how it’s somewhat lopsided. How that eye doesn’t quite line up with the other one, and how the hair looks fake, fabricated. You hate how the colors clash and how the light source is GOD knows where. You hate how your knowledge of anatomy is constantly holding you back, teasing you with a carrot at the end of the long stick; you’re so close to being what you think is pro, but you don’t know QUITE ENOUGH to keep that pose from looking wonky. You hate how everyone you admire turns out to be younger than you, or marginally older than you, because that’s when you feel the obligation, the pull of the race to be THE BEST, weighing down your reason.

But before you picked up your paint brush, your tablet pen, your pencil – what was there? A blank canvas, a blank paper, a blank, forbidding photoshop file, and the “responsibility” to get better at art as soon as physically possible.

There was nothing before you put your pencil down. Nothing before you made that first stroke. Every time you think that work is shit, I want you to look at it and remember: before you made that move, before you imagined, created this IDEA, there was nothing. Just a smattering of pixels. A blank page. What remains after you have RECREATED YOUR IDEA, moving it by use of your anatomy studies, your lighting studies, incorporating every single thing you have ever learned about art to make what you see REAL, is the result of you. It is the result of your efforts, and when it comes down to your art, it’s about you. Stop comparing yourself to others. Stop thinking there is a race to win. You can do it – you’ve made it this far. Every thing you create is a culmination of your talents, your will to create. That’s powerful. You’re powerful, and fully capable of creating anything you set your mind to.

THE END good night

This is like getting a warm hug from the nicest teddy bear during a cold and terrifying storm and wow hello I love this post

@mingesu

#this applies to literally everything someone can create
#strive to be better but dont put yourself down for ‘not being good enough’
#i struggle so much with that. i know.
#but know that doing SOMETHING is enough.
#but also know that you dont have to constantly be doing something. you’re allowed to let yourself relax.
#please dont beat yourself up for stuff that’s not really worth it in the end. i know. i still do that. it sucks.
#and im trying to unlearn it and i hope you can too

so i wrote some tags that ended up being… a really good message for people with chronic perfectionism issues like mine and i would feel rly bad confining that to such a temporary space. so. here that is.